It can be very difficult to talk about with others. It can therefore be a lonely experience - as if you are the only one in the world with such thoughts. That’s not correct. 

There are others who also have sexual thoughts about children, even though it isn’t something that we talk about. Because having sexual thoughts about children is taboo, it can be difficult to find others who share the same thoughts that you do, even though it can be a great help.

To best answer the question, it may be a good idea for you to learn about why you have sexual thoughts about children.