Am I going to violate or hurt children when I have sexual thoughts about them?
Having sexual thoughts about children does not mean that you are a bad person or a monster. It is your actions that are crucial. Just by searching for information and support on our website, you have demonstrated that you want to do the right thing.
There are people who are sexually attracted to children who would never think of acting on making their thoughts reality.
If you reach out for help, you can learn to deal with what you are attracted to. We recommend that you ask for professional help and personal support, even if doing so may be difficult - something you have to work to get over.
Here, you can read some more about the people in Denmark who are really good at helping you along.
How can I get help if I don’t want to talk about it with anyone?
It is understandable if you find it difficult to talk to others about your thoughts. But if you don’t tell anyone about your problems, they can’t help you.
Who can I call anonymously if I’m worried about my thoughts or actions?
There are different places you can contact to get help via phone or e-mail without sharing your name, address or other information about yourself.